Why Creating Your Style is Important

Some may say that clothes are just clothes… why make such a big deal over fashion and style, I beg to differ. Yes I will admit that another girl can be wearing the same dress and even the same shoes as me (which would be a bit of a nightmare with the shoe accessory), but our styles will be completely different when coming to the jewelry that we pick, the way we style our hair, to the way we wear our makeup. This is where our styles become different. That word ‘style’ is so important in so many ways. In school a professor can hand out the same story for the class to do a book report on.  No matter how similar we may agree upon what the story is about as students, our writing styles will be completely different. Fashion style is just like that.  Here are four reasons as to why creating your style is important.

You Stand Out From the Rest

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This sound so cliche but it’s the truth. Having a sense of style creates a sense of self. By this it can mean having certain look like a certain hairstyle of even wearing vibrant nail colours.. style is important. In high school I loved wearing big-funky earrings. Before anyone knew my name, they recognized me being the small girl with the big earring. What can I say…I stood out.

Therefore People Will Remember You

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Again this stems back from standing out. Hopefully you being memorable leads to a positive affect on people than the negative. People are quick to tell if someone is well dressed. No matter what is said like not to judge a book by its cover… that is a lie. It’s always better to be someone who irons their clothes than someone who looks messy. Try going to a job interview look dishevelled and see how far you go!

It Creates a Sense of Self

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I will bring a little philosophy in this and state that we are all meant for a purpose on this earth, journeys of self discovery is meant to be found. When you have a sense of style it creates just that… self discovery. You know you would not try that yellow jumpsuit but if it was in another colour, you might just buy it… this is a sense of self. You have the awareness of what your likes and dislikes are when coming to fashion and trends.

It Brings Out Your Confidence

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This is the most important fact. With style you get a sense of self to stand out from the crowd thus increasing your confidence. As we all know confidence is a deal breaker for many aspects of life. You aren’t only dressing impress other (why would you anyway), you are uplifting your self esteem without really knowing. Dressing well is one thing but when you dress for yourself believing that you can wear an outfit, life changing chapters will occur in life. Remember trends come and go but style if forever.

The Problem With Fashion and Race

It is pretty evident that I love clothes. For me style is a form of creative expression.

 

Growing up, I have always been a regular kid playing double dutch jump rope while collecting the Spice Girl dolls (yes I am a nineties kid) but also got excited when my mother bought a fashion magazine from the drugstore. As young as I can remember, before I even bothered to actually read an article, I would rummage through pictures as models were uniquely styled in their outfits.

 

In my gut there was a puzzle that always seemed missing; the problem was no one looked like me.

 

I know some people may be reading this and wonder why this is so important but like many other issues that are at hand still to this day, let me explain my reason.

 

When girls are pressured to look a certain size because magazines, commercials, movies, billboard ad and other forms of media displaying being skinny with long flowing hair is the only way of being beautiful, it’s kind of hard to feel a certain confidence. Now when you add the fact that these forms of media, especially when I growing up, showing blond blue-eyed women being the standard for beauty while Naomi Campbell being the poster black model in the industry, the self esteem is not really at high. Naomi is and always will be a boss on the runway, and while Jourdan Dunn may be carrying the torch, more needs to be done in the fashion industry. I am not just talking about more black models, just more visible minorities on a whole.

 

I can go on and on about the scary facts on how a small percentage of visible minorities are walking down the runway or how even the lighter skinned models will usually get paid more, or even how some designers want their models having ‘European’ features but dipped into chocolate… but there is a problem when that is a thought that will cross people’s minds in the industry.

 

I am not trying to rip the fashion industry apart, however, when certain issues rise up and people say to get over something while ignoring the problem at hand, there is a certain frustration that arises in me. Race always seems to come up when people want to know who you are and where you are from, but when it comes to the problems that are going on at hand, some people become quiet and oblivious.

 

Fashion dictates what is in style one season and what is out the next. It impacts many girls and boys alike including models. Parents can tell their children that they are beautiful and smart, that only goes as far as it can. When kids see certain visuals displayed in all media platforms from all industries including fashion, this is a big impact on their way of thinking.

 

The industry has come a long way in this day of age. You can see different types of models from plus-sized to petite models, and body image for models seem to show viewers and reporters alike that they are healthy and focus on fitness, but more needs to be done. Remember beauty is in the eye of the beholder; there is not just one type. I just hope that the little girls and boys right now feel uplifted at whatever they are seeing.

 

We can’t uplift if we are always in conflict with others.

 

5 of My Treasured New Items

You can’t start the summer season without adding just a few additions to your closet. I’ve come up with five of my latest items for the season. Prices are also listed with each picture.

The Blue Romper

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When you find a jewel like this, there is really no letting go. This romper has become a staple for my summer outfits this year.  You can wear this to any occasion. Whether it on the beach, on a boat or clubbing, this classic attire will be a hit for years to come (Winners $10).

Embellished Sandals

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These sandals are a work of art! To all of the fashionistas out there not up for wearing heels, this gem is the best option creating the glamorous look (Winners $32).

 

The Netted Tank Top

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This funky top is a go to for clubbing. It’s sporty, sexy and fun without the complications if wearing a top (BeBe $10- on sale).

Grey Wedges

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One word that is best to describe these wedges is… comfort. This shoe can be combined with anything from jeans to a bold coloured dress for the summer (Naturalizer $37- onsale).

Yellow Purse

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Thanks to my brother, I call this my lemonade purse. This bag is another staple for all of my outfits in the summer. The lemonade purse screams summer. The best feature about the bag is that you are able to fit anything in it. Try not to put your whole world in there though (Guess $80).