So you’re considering being a baldie?
Hey I get it. After the last blog post, How To Be a Bald Chick, you were reading how to be one, now this is just another push to show why women (in particular) should take the plunge even if it is just a one time event. Yes it is daunting especially going into a barbershop where the environment is male dominant. Yes you will have people within your close circle convince you not to cut it (since it can be deemed as crazy). Yes you will probably be missing your tresses. But if you have been, and I know there are some of you who have considered shaving your hair off to a crop/bald style for years, why not just go ahead and go for it! You have one life to live and it’s too short to care what anyone thinks especially when it’s on you. If you’re not convinced yet. Here are a few reasons why you should be a baldie.
1. It’s Easy
Ah the joys of low maintenance: no comb, no brush, not a single single strand of hair. You won’t even need to spend much on hair products if any at all. Life is easy and so is being a bald lady!
2. You Will Stand Out From the Crowd
For all the right reasons… this is something you are doing for yourself so you’re not hurting anyone. You just may change a life too. Not many women sport this super cropped look, so when you are out in a crowd… trust me you stand out from the rest of the pack. You’re going against the grain and challenging what beauty if supposed to look like, pretty much a middle finger to beauty standards. And who wants to blend in anyway?
3. Keeps You Cool In The Summer
For all those three months of heat and humidity, you want to keep as cool as possible, and hair can be a hinderance. When you cut it all off, you just kept yourself cooler. Plus guys do it, so why can’t you do it?
4. It’s Edgy (You Will Look Badass)
There is something quite fearless and bold about a woman who for whatever reason dons a buzzcut or a bald look. Again, even in today’s culture where style can be fluid, the stigma against bald women still prevails. Also, whether it be in a movie or t.v. show, a bald woman is always the badass out of the crew. They are either a warrior, someone who has major powers or just that chick who can fight til kingdom come. Pretty badass if you tell me.
5. You Can Change It Up
Yes this is true: you can rock the bald look by using the zero guard on a clipper, you can dye your hair in numerous colours and bleach it without any worries of… it all falling out (yep remember you have no hair). Patterns come to thought as well, or even having the sides of your head more closely shaved while keeping the top of your head longer to create an elongation with your face. If you love tattoos and is considering to tattoo your head, I know that this would look pretty cool (yes I have tattoos but mom no I will not tattoo my head don’t worry). If you want to rock the wigs, then I say by all means all the power to you. Scarves are also another consideration to the styles. I told you, the possibilities are endless.
6. It Will Be a Liberating Moment
You know the hardest process of going bald will not be the shaving process, it will be after when you go out in the world. When you go to work, or head to the mall, you may need to visit your doctor, or even out on a date, your family will have those summer barbecues, or getting ready for a gala… you will get the stares. But those who judge you wrongfully are projecting their insecurities on you. Therefore it is none of your business what strangers, your family, friends or coworkers have to say about your no hair style.
When you go beyond all of this and you believe in yourself, this will be the liberating moment that I am talking about: all those invisible shackles that you have on yourself when coming to beauty will start to melt.
Oh how emancipating!

I really believe that shaving one’s head is the easy part. Human beings have so many insecurities that they need to deal with instead of projecting on others. When we are free in our hair expression we are forcing others to examine why they feel so chained? …. Older women especially minority women have a tough time even accepting their gray hair which I like to call ‘wisdom strands’. I feel like the journey towards becoming a baldie involves accepting your hair in all it’s stages: natural not permed; gray not colored and shaven not covered!! I am excited to see where I end up with my hair journey… My 13yr old may beat me to the plunge… She is doing a buzz cut this week.
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Oh for sure. Hair for women especially black is the crown and glory. One of the stereotypes are that we can’t grow our hair which is of course not true. Like anything with proper care, your hair will grow. This is also probably one of the reasons as to why we become so scared to do something so drastic which also pertains to all women. Oh that’s exciting!!!!
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